Back to the roots
Hildburg is my given name and means fight and protection.
I started to lose connection to my name.
Using Hildburg as name for my business made a lot of sense. It feels like it has found its rightful purpose finally.
Coach, MBA, M.A.
German native living in Belgium
Fluent in English, Dutch & French
Single mum of a 10 year old daughter
In love with horses & dogs for like ever
A highly educated intelligent woman won’t ever find herself in an abusive relationship, right?
Whenever I saw these movies or video clips of women who were together with a man wo treated them like trash, I didn’t believe that this could ever happen to me. And yet it did. And not only once even several times.I felt like my life had turned into a dramatic thriller just I didn’t have Shawn Mendes next to me in a motel room singing he would ‘Treat me better’.
How does a highly educated intelligent woman treat such experiences? She makes it her life’s mission to help other women out of abusive relationships in their lives & prevent from ending up in any again.
THE 1ST TIME I WAS ASSAULTED I WAS 18. THE 1ST TIME I WAS RAPED I WAS 22. THE 2ND TIME I WAS RAPED I WAS 25. THE 5TH TIME I WAS RAPED I WAS 39. AT 40, I DECIDED ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
In between, several sexual assaults and a domestic violent relationship happened. I reported incidents to the police only 4 times. I never pressed charges & I never went to court to demand justice. I never spoke up.
Many times I didn’t even become aware that what had happened to me were crimes. I had been seriously depressed due to never opening up to my therapists or psychiatrists about the incidents. Many of my rapes & sexual assaults happened with men I knew, men I trusted, men I thought to be kind. I mostly swallowed my pain, kept silent, felt too ashamed & blamed myself for allowing these men into my life in the first place.
My Vision 2028